It’s time to get back in the saddle again. Stop the self-pitying and wallowing and get out of your safety zone. Not all affairs have to end as unfortunately as your last one. Love, and more importantly, fun is right around the corner if you aren’t afraid of making initial contact. Smile at the cutey on the El or compliment that honey you regularly spy at the coffee shop. All it takes is a little confidence and a better attitude to get over that hump in your love life.